Ask Your Bridal Party!

Did you ask your girls to stand by your side on your big day as your bridesmaids? Or, did you informally mention that they should keep your date open at all costs? We all love a fun way to show our girls how much they matter to us, so here are our top 3 ways to ask your gals to be your bridesmaids:

Photo: Janet Ni Photography

Photo: Janet Ni Photography

The Classic Approach: Bridal Box

A bridal box is a stress-free and ultra-cute approach to asking your bridesmaids. There are so many pre-made options online that offer customizations and shipping straight to your friend’s door. Prefer to DIY? This is also perfect for you to take a break and be creative during an otherwise busy season of life. 


Fill your box in with mini champagne bottles, bath salts or bath bombs, candles and more!

Fill your box in with mini champagne bottles, bath salts or bath bombs, candles and more!

The Thoughtful Touch: Personal Gift with Card 

Do you have an inside joke going with a pal? Do you both have an intense love for the best tea blends, monogrammed accessories, or a certain author? A thoughtful gift around a shared interest paired with a handwritten card is a beautiful and simple way to ask your bridesmaids to stand by your side.

Have a chocoloholic friend? Surprise her or him with specialty goodies from a bougie sweet shop!

Have a chocoloholic friend? Surprise her or him with specialty goodies from a bougie sweet shop!

The Surprise Soiree: Party Reveal 

Now, this one’s a bit easier if your pals are all in one spot. Kick off your bridal party (pun TOTALLY intended) with cocktails or brunch with your besties and ask them all at the same time to be your bridesmaids!

Whether you have try one or combine all options - you’re bridesmaids will enjoy being spoiled and primped by you!